Patience against force

Wonder why patience should be use against force? People who uses force prides themselves of their strength and their ability to dominate because of it. Patience uses time and intellect to combat the force behind the force. What does it mean? Know the strength and know the weaknesses. Be patient and pray for guidance. Deal with yourself and deal with time. Don't take the challenge immediately. As much as you can avoid violence, please avoid it. But if with some events that you really need to retaliate know that you have to ask God to guide you how to do it without force and without violence. If everybody ask and pray first before doing any action then I think the whole world will improve.

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Who's fault was it?

Bank accidentally gives man $2million and then sued man for larceny charges. Is this fair?

It is bank practice to verify signature before withdrawal especially when it comes to millions already. Here in the Philippines it is our practice to hold the money and the client as much as possible. So we try to offer them better rates first and of course offer other products. When we verify signatures, we always have to check everything and maybe get some IDs to update if signature differs a lot.

I was surprised to read that they offered the man to make the withdrawal and insist he got that much deposit. Confidentiality and as a matter of precautionary measure, if the client does not remember nor understand what an officer of the bank is talking about then maybe one should think twice before offering the withdrawal. For sure the one approving will likely pay or is it the insurance?

But if the story holds true that it was offered then I am very much surprise. Really we don't offer that much for withdrawal, we offer good rates to keep it.
reference: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080220/ap_on_fe_st/odd_bank_error_arrest

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Maintaining cool heads

A pastor of a southwest Florida church revolutionized married couples when he said he wants them to have sex 30 days in a row and singles to abstain. Intimacy and being connected needs more than physical contact. Although it took care of the physical needs it does not fully answer emotional needs. People needed to reevaluate their situation, know what went wrong and ignite passion again by caring. When you start caring and understanding the need of a person besides sex then I guess divorce lawyers won't profit much in the next ten years to come.
reference: http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/02/20/earlyshow/living/relationships/main3850842.shtml?source=mostpop_story

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shooting guns

People have different level of emotional attachments on certain things. We deal differently on situations that we are facing. Most of all we give a different response each time to every similar or different situations. I would say we are to talk it out with people personally or virtually as to what we think and what we feel. It helps to loosen out tension and helps us to contain the hurts and pains we are keeping to ourselves. What is important is that we are not keeping us out of the social circle even if it is virtual or whatever. Relationships helps. Always pray and manage your affairs with great trust to God. Interactive communication engages you and sometimes challenges you to learn things from people. Focus on people, do not focus on your hurt. Make it a habit to get curious with the culture and personality of other people then you will get to understand the world better.
reference: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/niu_shooting

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Overcoming sad feelings

We all have our sad moments and it will help if we start shaking ourselves a little and try to overcome the negative emotions. Negative emotions dampens our mood, lessens our mental functions and lowers our self confidence. How to start getting back to our old self? Practice smiling. Any one you meet, smile a little. They smile back at you and it will make your day just perfect. When you go to the supermarket cashier to pay your bill, smile. The cashier smiles back at you and you get the best service. Smile, it affects everyone you meet, it affects your muscles and makes you look younger and healthy. Smile!

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Praying the rosary

Praying the rosary when not heartfelt may be considered monotonous. But the rosary is the only thing that will make you qualify in heaven. Do you know why? When you pray the rosary, you meditate on the life and works of Jesus. When you pray the rosary Mother Mary intercedes for your prayers here on earth and intercedes for your soul in heaven.

Intense prayer makes you live like the life of Jesus and Mother Mary. The rosary will make your heart soft, create your consciousness for the good and the bad things and make you real conscientious. Maybe you are not aware that the kind of bad things you consider may not be bad with other people.

But if you really want real change in your life. Be a loner for quite sometime so you will begin to know yourself more and you are not surrounded with things that will take away your focus. It will be best to be on your own first and know what you want and what you need. Then pray. Being alone does not mean pure loneliness, it could also mean cleansing or being away from worldly distractions that keep us away from quiet time or prayer time.

When you pray the rosary you will see changes in your attitude and in your life. You will see the world differently. You will see people in the eyes of spirituality. You will learn to live with pain and stressors with a peaceful heart and mind. Believe me I've been there for the last years of my life. Always converse with God and you will see more results and obtain wisdom if heaven will pour on his heavenly gifts on you.

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